Does the forum software in use have a "better way" of sorting what you have and have not read? I've tried doing it by New Comments, but that doesn't work flawlessly. For the most part, I just find myself confused as to whether the gray/black coloration of the post title is significant. Sometimes a post I've looked at is black, and sometimes it's gray. In other cases, a gray title contains new replies that I've not read. Anyway, it's just a little confusing.
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