Fitting in is built into our DNA. It comes with puberty and is a transition from parental attachment to peers as a step along the way to independent adulthood. Unfortunately, some (far too many) weird thinking "professionals" have twisted and warped the natural behavior into all kinds of bizarre artificial creations.

We are all trapped in the wrong body. One simply line from the Bible tells you all you need to know. “Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

Everyone has physical challenges from being unattractive to chronic pain. Often there is very little that can be done about it. What everyone can do is change their spirit. That is the tragedy of the victim mentality that has become so pervasive. You can"t change your body to any great extent or control those around to conform to your needs but you can change how you experience life. Learning how to create a positive, constructive attitude will serve you well despite what slings and arrows life throws at you.

Society has become too effeminate or passive. It has lost the vitality of the masculine or active. Passively suffering is pointless, you have to actively get hold of your emotions and make them your servant not be a slave to them. It starts with exercise and mental stimulation. Put down the cell phone do something physical and stop the virtue signaling on social media and you will be happier and more productive. You life and that of those around you will almost immediately improve.

At one time these things were taught in school. You had physical education, social activities, oaths of commitment to the society at large, and moral guidance. Now schools teach everyone they are victims or oppressors and there is nothing that can be done about it accept reparations.

Jordan Peterson is rather exceptional. Imagine, a trained psychologist that still has the capacity to observe and not just evaluate what he is observing from his indoctrinated perspective.

I do have a question. Regarding the consideration, "I am in the wrong body". What is in the wrong body?
The brain? Perhaps a better surgical solution would be a brain swap as compared to gender affirming surgery. Or if "I" is not the brain what could it be. Some kind of metaphysical, genderless spirit or soul with sexual organs?

I find it rather interesting that Jordan Peterson has managed to stay grounded after what he has experienced.