thank you! yes. i have seen it a lot, like "queer authors," "queer artists," or "queer activist" as if it's some kind of brand. being gay, but i am cis, it just hurts but i don't know why

Hm I'm not sure I understand. But yeah, I think it's ok if people are confused or figuring themselves out but it just annoys me.

@coloredpencils It goes like this, yeah there's something normal and people can even be confused with it and themselves, mean while that same applies for some others but then for those same some others at the same time they consider thinking that because there is such a thing as normal that anything that is different than that or that if people are confused by it that it must be different and that because it's different it's somehow abnormal in the real face of what is normal and for those people even if they aren't confused by it they would still like to think that it's not normal to be different because they do just happen to think that anything is different must still be a bad thing and that isn't normal and even alright, because regardless of what anyone thinks normal still exists, people are different than each other, and being different is what's normal, yeah and even if a person is confused by it too. That's what makes normal people normal. Would you assume that I would be understanding that myself too, well as a matter of fact sort of it's, I don't even understand this myself, I understand that I am the one that is usually different than what others could be confused with, and yet also even understanding what does normal mean even is, is unknown to me, but it's still because of this fact, that I think I could be is understanding of this of people myself because of that. I just happen to know about this, because I normally do get confused with what should be normal to people and it hasn't the case ever been true to me before like that still so far too. Maybe, maybe that is why that what it means calling people different things just annoys the hell out of me. Doesn't it, though? Like, ironically just what if you could think about this, imagine that right now, what if right now that there is some extraordinary normal being in this existence here, that right now like, as if every single time at the same time that when all of these people are trying to get at them just to complain about all being the things that they think shouldn't be normal for people, like, this that being is listening to all of this right now like, hearing what everyone else is keeps on telling it what would be normal to people in this world, that thing is probably thinking right now what in the hell are these people even talking about right now, I can just simply imagine. Like there's no use to it, trying to figure it out or not to anyone, because it is always going to be other normal people trying to tell everyone else what even is normal to people, it's just, just annoying right? Right? It is isn't it? How annoying is that? Even I can understand how annoying that must be, it's just so annoying, but that's the price that one must pay to be anything normal that's normal in this world I suppose. That's what I was trying to say.