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I know the category for this post is not a 100% fit, but sexuality and gender play key roles in one's lovelife and relationships. As a gay man, the following points are making my own life challenging, and I have faced more problems related to these points than from being abnormal itself. No matter who you are, love or fuck, thank you for reading and feel more than free to comment your own thoughts! I can post other opinions and experiences related to LGBT-things if these spark conversation. 🙂

  • Being gay/bi/trans/whatever is NOT an identity. It is just one, private part of it. Basing one's identity strongly on one thing is a huge part of LGBT culture - which is just utterly brainless since one can't even control being LGBT. Who you fuck or what hangs between your legs does not define you. Get a career, a hobby, a life or your own views and interests.

  • Normal people don't run around screaming about their sexuality or gender. And yes, someone who is part of the LGBT can behave normally. Your sexuality or gender does not need to be brought on the table every fucking time you enter a room.

  • Being part of LGBT does NOT give you the right to harass whoever you want. For some reason, catcalling and sexual harassment is nowadays just fine if you are part of LGBT. Giving sexual comments on strangers and objectification is NOT fine no matter who you are.

  • Gay community is not heathly. No other group is as toxic and manipulating as gay communities, especially groups of 20-30 y/o gay males. It sounds a little backwards, but gay community supports its members only on the idealistic level. The reality is a gossiping, blackmailing, overly sexual game of territories and social bubbles.

  • Being the sassy gay man is harmful to the gay community. Unfortunately, these characters do roam around quite a lot. Especially objectification of other men (gay or straight) is strong within these individuals. By being a sassy gay one tells others that they are a bitter and fragile lil fag. Grow a pair and stop.

All these points and problems strengthen the negative LGBT stereotypes, which makes the life of the LGBT members harder - inside and outside the closet. Especially we who don't want our sexuality or gender to define us and aim to be normal members of the society, suffer from the strong stereotypes the listed actions support.

MA7xGE 1 May 14
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My brother is gay. If you didn't know him, you'd probably never guess it. If anything, you might assume he was a shy, nerdy, incel. But he and his partner have been together for almost twenty years now.

His partner? You would never guess that he's gay, either. If anything, you might assume he's an overgrown child - which frankly, he is - but that's beside the point.

I knew for a long time that my brother was gay, even before he officially "came out." When he did, I asked him what took him so long? My mother later told me he was terrified of coming out to my wife and I, because we are Catholic, which to me is weird, because we've never espoused anything anti-gay.

This is not to say that he can't be an asshole about things sometimes. For example, he resents the fact that I still eat at Chick-Fil-A. I told him that he needs to get over it. That if he wants people to accept that being gay is no big deal, that he also needs to accept that other people espousing beliefs in traditional marriage are no big deal. That's what tolerance is SUPPOSED to be: they tolerate you, you tolerate them, even though you fundamentally disagree. I mean, it's not like my brother is married - and has made it very clear that he doesn't want to ever get married - so why should it matter to him whether someone says they believe marriage should be between a man and woman? There's enough things in the world to be outraged about without being outraged at something that doesn't impact you.

What you are describing above is a product of critical theory, which is really just an extension of the principle of Marxism. Marxism said there's the proletariat and the bourgeois; critical theory just changes that to the oppressor class and the oppressed. And in a world where critical theory is given credibility - which just so happens to be most of the Western world right now - it is the "oppressed" classes that are given free reign to do whatever they like, without social consequence.

Personally, I find that very illuminating. Given the freedom to do as you like without social consequence, what do you choose to do? Do you extend the olive branch and attempt to make peace with those who denounced you, or do you throw your weight around and do as pleases you in an effort to piss as many people off as possible? Apparently, most opt for the latter. And that leads to embracing such insanity as insisting biological sex is a social construct, requiring normies to list their pronouns, demanding biological males that have transitioned are "no different" than women, and pushing the narrative that seven year olds are mature enough to decide to transition.

All this ultimately accomplishes is making the people who would've otherwise been tolerant - if not friendly and supportive to the community - very, very angry. So why do it? Because when given the opening to show people the character of their community, they fail to see the opportunity for what it is, and instead resort to pettiness. They justify it by insisting that they're giving back what they themselves got, but I've seldom heard of a situation where two wrongs make a right.

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About what percentage of your friends are gay?

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