LOL!!! For the life of me, I can't think of a reason why these folks should feel safe around a holy and just God.
[protestia.com]
People who have a grudge against God for their own faults should never feel "safe" around HIM. Jesus is male. Other than that God has no sex. The gender in which He chose to reveal Himself is His choice and if that makes someone feel unsafe around Him they need to self examine.