I dont think hatred is the right word. Its more of a realization that just flailing ideology in an attempt to beat an opposer into submission with it is useless. Dialogue with a good persuasive argument is better. Argument (not fighting) and agreeing to disagree, without abuse, is a more civilized and useful type of communication. It allows people to unite on the things they agree upon, and minimize what they disagree on, thereby avoiding the tribal polarization we have in our culture today and creating opportunities for "civil" relationships.

I don't hate ideology. I have my own. I just want to discuss the differences without being called names, doxxed, threatened or censored.

This site is surely promising.