Well, I'm new here and I am a women. But I did listen to your video. My thought is, being human exposes us to many different influences. Family, friends, interests, disappointments and on and on. These things also affect each individual differently. Men assume certain roles as do women, based on our perception of our experiences. There are going to be even more dynamics at play when a man and women enter into a relationship. This is where compromise, talking and changing comes in. I think a women can appreciate a good leader that makes her his priority. If he can learn to do that, she can better support and understand him and his role requirements. I am against abortion and I think 2 intelligent people have so many options they can find a way past that. I don't think men are bad, they do tend to disconnect from their more emotional partners. I think this is where most conflict can be traced.
I have no idea if I just offered anything you were looking for, but I'm giving what I have and hope you can find a nugget of usefulness in here someplace. Be blessed

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