Women are so confusing . The reason why I have been single for most of my life is because ; They are either too sexually agressive to the point of intimidation or they are so subtle that I can not read their archaic cues and end up missing out on something great . Four years ago, I rejected a offer for a threesome with some black woman and her friend because they were not serious about a long term commitment ( They just wanted to fool around without thinking about the future) . Even further back in time , I was dating a woman who turned out to be a man ; I was so embarrassed ( Now I assume that all women are secretly men in a costume ). My mom's friend's daughter was interested in me in high school but she never brought it to my attention and ended up marrying somebody else .