I didn't meant quite that, but that's okay. Allow me to comment on what you said... I hate to see men and women having issues like that. I'm a gay man, the type who would say he "feels like a woman." I'm just not a retard who thinks that's actually being a woman, it's just that my brain produces more female hormone than T probably. Point being, i know what it feels like on both sides. And from my perspective, I would suggest that you two as genders, are not understanding each other because you both have different hierarchies of value. When you judge something is a good thing to do, or a bad one, you choose what you think is good based on the value you give to each factor from your perspective. You need to learn her hierarchy. Those are different. I can tell you my guesses about certain things, but we're all different. I think the divide between men and women is opaqued by the difference between corrupt and non-corrupt human beings. So, I don't think you should give up. Love is too important, we don't live just off bread. You just need to internalize a different approach to know how their hierarchy of values work. If you think I can help you in any way with that, I'd be more than happy to. I'm just telling you this because it's easy to think they are just crazy, or that we are non-worthy. But neither is true. Just gotta learn to accept that we can be different, and it only pretty much affects those judgements of value. So... It shouldn't be tthat hard. Don't be so tough on yourself. Besides, women in your country has been corrupted for a long time now, it is very likely not even you. I feel bad about American men and their lack of worthy women nowadays. I really wonder how is it you guys haven't burnt it all down to the ground. Being lonely is no easy situation. So, sorry to hear that, man.

@A1fredo Thanks for the reply, I will say my daughter is constantly teaching me about the new ways in which our society functions as opposed to the strict way I was taught in my youth. Also the ways I misunderstand groups that have emerged from the older binery(?) days.
So I am slowly learning and when I meet her or my sons friends I am open to what they feel and believe as long as they don't force any views onto me as the only view to have.
Be safe friend and more importantly be happy in yourself.