2310170900Tu BONDING = BECOMING ONE FLESH!
DISAPPOINTMENT: There appears to be far too much emphasis being placed on creating committed relationships when that’s the exact opposite of MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) individualist philosophy of life.
Another apparent ‘oxymoron’ is the idea that bonding (becoming one flesh as it were) is incumbent upon a woman in the first place. It is however incumbent upon men to “………..leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” So why has this scriptural dynamic been historically reversed with the female leaving her father and mother to cleave to a man?
Why are men belittled and viewed as “failures to launch” when that viewpoint is never held of women? There’s even movies made demeaning young men for not leaving the nest as quickly as society thinks appropriate – not so young women. Society ridicules such young men calling them basement dwellers – and it’s always their mother’s basement without a mention of the father that’s provided it. Oh yeah, the misandry runs very very deep – the unconscious misandry.
Why should a man commit to a program of lifelong labor to benefit everyone but himself. The children aren’t his, the house he provided isn’t his. Even the standard of living he has provided the woman and HER children is a legal obligation rather than his to provide or not.
Wouldn’t is be appropriate now, that women earn more money than men, for society to stop figuring out ways to enslave men for a change?
When I think of the old adage: A woman’s strength is her beauty; a man’s beauty is his strength” I have to wonder where is the male effort to deny women their beauty that matches and/or counterbalances the female efforts to deny men their strength? Women have been invading male only spaces throughout history, and now there’s an uproar because a few brave men have invaded the female only sports space.
Women have had life too well for too long expressly at the expense of men. It shouldn’t be surprising that a few men have clearly seen that the female pasture, on the other side of the fence, is invitingly greener than the pasture men have. Transitioning to the female pasture is strictly between GOD and those individual gentlemen – and no one else has standing to interfere.
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Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. (kjv)
Genesis 2:22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. 23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. 24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. (kjv)
"that fashionable rhetorical novelty, the humblebrag, is itself an oxymoron"
mid 17th century: from Greek oxumōron, neuter (used as a noun) of oxumōros ‘pointedly foolish’, from oxus ‘sharp’ + mōros ‘foolish’.
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